The change upgrades `directory-watcher` library, hoping that it will fix the problem reported in #7695 (there has been a number of bug fixes in MacOS listener since then).
Once upgraded, tests in `WatcherAdapterSpec` because the logic that attempted to ensure the proper initialization order in the test using semaphore was wrong. Now starting the watcher using `watchAsync` which only returns the future when the watcher successfully registers for paths. Ideally authors of the library would make the registration bit public
(3218d68a84/core/src/main/java/io/methvin/watcher/DirectoryWatcher.java (L229C7-L229C20)) but it is the best we can do so far.
Had to adapt to the new API in PathWatcher as well, ensuring the right order of initialization.
Should fix#7695.
Having a modest-size files in a project would lead to a timeout when the project was first initialized. This became apparent when testing delivered `.enso-project` files with some data files. After some digging there was a bug in JGit
(https://bugs.eclipse.org/bugs/show_bug.cgi?id=494323) which meant that adding such files was really slow. The implemented fix is not on by default but even with `--renormalization` turned off I did not see improvement.
In the end it didn't make sense to add `data` directory to our version control, or any other files than those in `src` or some meta files in `.enso`. Not including such files eliminates first-use initialization problems.
# Important Notes
To test, pick an existing Enso project with some data files in it (> 100MB) and remove `.enso/.vcs` directory. Previously it would timeout on first try (and work in successive runs). Now it works even on the first try.
The crash:
```
[org.enso.languageserver.requesthandler.vcs.InitVcsHandler] Initialize project request [Number(2)] for [f9a7cd0d-529c-4e1d-a4fa-9dfe2ed79008] failed with: null.
java.util.concurrent.TimeoutException: null
at org.enso.languageserver.effect.ZioExec$.<clinit>(Exec.scala:134)
at org.enso.languageserver.effect.ZioExec.$anonfun$exec$3(Exec.scala:60)
at org.enso.languageserver.effect.ZioExec.$anonfun$exec$3$adapted(Exec.scala:60)
at zio.ZIO.$anonfun$foldCause$4(ZIO.scala:683)
at zio.internal.FiberRuntime.runLoop(FiberRuntime.scala:904)
at zio.internal.FiberRuntime.evaluateEffect(FiberRuntime.scala:381)
at zio.internal.FiberRuntime.evaluateMessageWhileSuspended(FiberRuntime.scala:504)
at zio.internal.FiberRuntime.drainQueueOnCurrentThread(FiberRuntime.scala:220)
at zio.internal.FiberRuntime.run(FiberRuntime.scala:139)
at akka.dispatch.TaskInvocation.run(AbstractDispatcher.scala:49)
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.ForkJoinTask$RunnableExecuteAction.exec(ForkJoinTask.java:1395)
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.ForkJoinTask.doExec(ForkJoinTask.java:373)
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.ForkJoinPool$WorkQueue.topLevelExec(ForkJoinPool.java:1182)
```
