This is the result of a general audit of how we fork threads, with a
detour into how we're using mutable state especially in websocket
codepaths, making more robust to async exceptions and exceptions
resulting from bugs.
Some highlights:
- use a wrapper around 'immortal' so threads that die due to bugs are
restarted, and log the error
- use 'withAsync' some places
- use bracket a few places where we might break invariants
- log some codepaths that represent bugs
- export UnstructuredLog for ad hoc logging (the alternative is we
continue not logging useful stuff)
I had to timebox this. There are a few TODOs I didn't want to address.
And we'll wait until this is merged to attempt #3705 for
Control.Concurrent.Extended
* remove phase one/two distinction and hdbquery typeclass
* move extensions to default-extensions
* switch to LazyTx which only acquires a connection if needed
* move defns from TH module into Ops module
* remove tojson orphan instance for http exception
* remove orphan instance for dmlp1
* getTopLevelNodes will not throw any exceptions
